Thursday, February 12, 2009

WHY DID GOD CREAT SEX?

GOD DOSENT MAKE MISTAKES,AND HE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HE WAS DOING WHEN HE DIDNT MAKE THE ACT OF SEX SIMPLER...........
Why did God create sex? Most people will answer. "For procreation!" To make new human beings! Right ....... Thank you! But there's gotta be more to it Why did god have to make sex so embarassing? So humbling So sexy? And why did he, being so religious himself make it such an 'unreligious' thing,
Why did you have to make it so sexy, God? God could easily have made sex to function by some other much less controversial process, just as he did for amoeba! Amoeba just divide. That way sex would have been much less sensational, less un orthodox, less shameful less sensual, but of course also less pleasureable!!!! ;)
He could have made it just functional and much less controversial and taboo! - by rubbing hands together, for example, or by pouring fertilising fluid over eggs as He made most fish do, without any of the sexually explicit mating and those coupling mechanics!!! couldnt He????
Of course He could have if he is god at all, He could have created it as simple as kissing someones little finger!!!! Much less embarrassing!!!! That's for sure!!!! Then we wouldnt have had all these moral complications and implications, and ahve to deal with all these resulting tricky situations and seductive tempations, and hide out and 'do it' in secret, in sleazy love motles!!!

Well, the answer is plain and simple, that god dosent make mistakes and he knew exactly what he was doing when he didnt creat it simpler, and created sex, as is ! And so you can safely assume that he had some ulterior motives or designs, his own sectret agenda, when he created sex the way he did!!!! And the question becomes :' what were his motives?'
To discover gods motives we need to analyse the sex phenomenon closer. We all know that sex dosent come that easy no matter how libral we claim to be. There are some hitches that make sex quite an obstable course, quite a challenge, even moral taboos aside.
In order to even meet someone, we first need to admit that we have a need which is hard for some of us. We need to admit that we need, like or even love someboday at the glorious pleasures and other rewards of sex.
But naturally we are afraid to even admit that, as we have to be rejected! And so, we are forced to overcome fear. Sex teaches us faith and courage.
In order to enjoy sex, we need to get unified with another human being to even get physically close enough together for sexual gratification. We need to overcome our pride to make friends, to be kind, romantic, or in case of couples we may need to overcome disunity, disagreement, to forgive or humble ourselves to be forgiven, and put aside petty conflicts of the day!!!! Sex teaches us humility! we have to give to receive. We have to share ourselves, to give affection, and we need to help each other get to the point where we would like to be. That s sex teaching unselfishness, love and charity.
Sex teaches us confidence, boldness and appropriating faith to get the good things of life, even if they are so calld forbidden fruits! Grace stands far above the law ever can!!!! It teaches us that the ultimate hidden truth is much higher and stronger that the mommandment, and that the naked truth will set us free. Sex also teaches us that in ourselves we are not sufficient to reach the truth.
God already gets a lot of mileage out of the basics of sex, in the way of godly values. If we just were made to shake hands to procreate, we would all have stayed bottled up little islands, with no need to break down any walls between us whatsoever. Society as we know it might never have come into existence, we would ahve killed each other over the timiest difference of opinion.
Thats it ladies and gentlemen next time you think of sex remember it takes one to have one!!!


Tuesday, January 20, 2009

space and togetherness

Let there be spaces in our togetherness. 
     And let the winds of the heavens dance between us.  
Let us love one another, but not make bond of love,
     let it rather be a moving sea between the shares of our souls.
Fill each others cup, but drink not from one cup.
    Give one another of our bread, but not eat from same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous,
    but let each one of us be alone.
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver
    with same music.
Let us give our hearts, but not into each others keeping,
   for only the hand of life can contain our hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together,
   for pillars of temple stand apart.
And the oak tree and the apress grow not into each others shadow.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

cycle of life.....

cycle of life ....... life comes in full circle . So to say but has many dimension to it before it actually dose.


"Its 7 30 now, if it was not for a nutcraking repeat telecast of mtv roadies 6, i would have reached my hospital on time." I was thinking loudly while rushing thru a rawa idle followed by a cup of tea, took a rick to travel a distance of about 1.5 km, which i normally walk this would only save my energy not time sadly the signal at southend goes for full 180 sec , i take about 5 min to walk that distance and same time in a rick. Working on a sunday night means treating drunken rich brats for crashing their bike or techi junkies who find that sunday is the only day doctors are free , even when they have some problem for past three days.



As usual night shift started with some guy bleeding from his leg i didnt ask him how it happend just asked him where , its taken for granted by me on a sunday night how this can happen. then came the dude who hit the first guy , then one drunked husband crashed on median and wife was injured bastard was left un scratched. i was busy handeling these people when one of my staff asked me " Sir there is a lady outside with aching tummy and wants so see a lady doc" . MAN having so much blood on my hands that ticked me off i yelled back " there is no lady doc you can hunt around other hospital on a sunday" all the while thinking dose it show on my face i am not professional !!!!!!!!!! either way the couple walked in my office . being married for three years this couple were trying to have a baby for 2 years. so going by my expericence sent her for a pregnancy test. mean while recieved a code blue from the icu . i heard my self think allowed " yaar go so busy with these out patient forgot about the old lady who was very critical inside sadly there was nothing we could do to save here she had multi organ failure and age 75 none the less we lost her and there was where the cycle of life ended on my night shift ..................................

Was sitting reflecting , which i do everytime i lose a patient my cordless buzzzzed it was the lab a sweet voice said " sir the urine prenancy test you asked for on the mrs WWW 's sample have returned positive " i broke this news for the couple and both of them were so happy they hugged each other . :-) and left me thinking very deeply about how the end of cycle fades and brighten up to form a new begining ............................. just thanked god for all beautiful things and lied down with a anticipation to be woken up for some sos call..